deference vs obligingness

deference and obligingness both are nouns.

Word	Noun	Adjective	Verb	Adverb
deference	Yes	No	No	No
obligingness	Yes	No	No	No

As nouns, deference and obligingness are synonyms defined as:

deference and obligingness: a disposition or tendency to yield to the will of others

Other synonyms of deference include complaisance, compliance, compliancy.

deference (noun)	obligingness (noun)
a courteous expression (by word or deed) of esteem or regard	a disposition or tendency to yield to the will of others
a disposition or tendency to yield to the will of others
courteous regard for people's feelings